Ever since he was a little kid, Charb
was always very active. He used to love
running around, exploring, and chasing
his older sister Rachel. Some of his
fondest memories were of hiking with
his cousins Guy and Joe in Hubbards,
N.S. In Jr. High, Charb channeled all
of his active energy into sports. In
grade seven he began playing soccer,
rugby and wrestling. Charbel also was
into canoeing and kayaking for many
years. Around the same time he got into
sports, Charb also started lifting weights
and continued to do so until the accident.
Charbel
wrestled all throughout Jr. High and
high school. He was team captain for
two years in grades 11 and 12. Charb
loved wrestling because it required
so much strength, agility and stamina.
Charb had a natural talent for wrestling
and was soon the star wrestler at his
school, winning many tournaments including
Nova Scotia Provincials and the Atlantic
Canada Regional Championships. Charb
went all the way to placing second in
the Canadian Nationals in grade 11.
When Charb was wrestling he was totally
focused and in the zone, he was always
prepared mentally for the match against
even the strongest opponent. Charb had
hoped to wrestle in university but a
knee and elbow injury kept him from
doing so. During his time at Kings-Edgehill,
Charb won athlete of the year almost
every single year (at least for as many
years as I can remember!)
Charb also played on the Kings-Edgehill
School soccer and rugby teams and won
many provincial and regional titles
with the teams. Charb became somewhat
of a rugby fanatic during his last two
years at Kings, and traveled with the
team to Ireland to play! Just before
the accident Charb was considering moving
to New Zealand to train in the hopes
of becoming a professional rugby player.
Charb
could often be found reading bodybuilding
magazines or working out in his home
gym, where he would sometimes bench
press as much as 245lbs! Charb was very
serious about getting in shape and staying
fit for life. Exercise and sports were
his passions. In fact, the night of
his accident he was returning home from
writing an exam to become a personal
trainer so that he could work at the
new Kings-Edgehill School gym. Charb’s
passion for sports and his fearless
attitude earned him the name Maximus
after one of his favorite gladiators.
From the time he was young, Charb loved
to draw. He used to spend hours in his
room drawing pictures of sharks, monsters
and all things powerful. Most of Charb’s
drawings as he grew older were of bodybuilders
or orcs and other characters from his
favorite computer game Warcraft. Not
only did Charb like to draw these characters,
he also gave them personal attributes
and strengths.
For Charb physical and mental strength
were the most important thing. He always
strove for perfection in what he did
and he put 100% effort into looking,
feeling and being the best that he could
be. We believe that it is because of
this mentality that Charbel is still
with us today. We heard time and time
again from medical professionals that
most people would not have survived
the accident, but Charb’s mental
and physical strength have helped him
to survive and continue surviving against
all odds. It is his ability to overcome
challenges and to fight with every last
effort he has, that will bring him further
and further along the road to recovery.
If anyone can do it, it’s Maximus.
To everyone that knows him, Charb is
a very special individual. As for his
family, we’ve seen him at the
best and worst of times, but Charbel
is an incredibly sensitive and caring
individual despite his physical strength
and sculpted exterior. Despite all of
his athletic accomplishments, Charb
was humble about his success because
he believed that he could always achieve
more with time, training, and determination.
Charb believed in keeping to himself
and working through his problems on
his own.
Charb has many wonderful friends that
he has known for many years, and that
have continued to show up at home and
at the hospital bringing news of their
adventures in university or travels,
and reminding Charb of all the crazy
times they spent together. There are
also teachers and coaches from Kings-Edgehill
that have continued to come to the hospital
week after week to encourage Charbel
and to inspire him along on in his recovery.
We want to thank them all, they know
who they are, and ask them to keep on
coming whenever they can because Charbel
needs all the support and encouragement
that he can get. And we know he loves
all of their visits and reliving the
fun times in the past.